At the end of the day you have to allow yourself to be selfish. You have to believe that you deserve the best and are capable of being loved. You have to convince yourself, even if it may appear otherwise, that the things that you go out of your way to do for people are acknowledged and appreciated. I’ve learned from experience that settling, being bitter, seeing yourself as unloveable, and shying away from going that extra mile for someone in fear of being taken for granted are the things that were ultimately prohibiting me from being completely happy. Love yourself and spread that love generously, yo.